Massage Oil vs Vibrator Foreplay: Plan a Tantus P-Spot Session

Quick answer

Use the massage oil first to relax and warm up the body, then switch to a thick water-based lubricant for the Tantus Silicone P-Spot Anal Vibrator. Oil is for foreplay, not for silicone toy insertion.

Your step-by-step P-spot session plan

1. Set up the space and supplies: Lay out the massage oil, a water-based lubricant, the Tantus vibrator, and a towel. Keep oil and water-based lube separate so you do not accidentally use oil on the silicone toy. Check that your water-based lubricant is clearly labeled before you begin.
2. Warm up with massage oil: Pour a small amount of Lovehoney Apothecary Seduce Scent Massage Oil into your hands, rub them together, and massage the lower back, hips, and thighs. Use slow, broad strokes and ask your partner what pressure feels good. Stop if the scent feels overpowering or irritating; the oil is for external skin, not internal use.
3. Switch to water-based lubricant: Wipe excess oil from your hands, then apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant to the anal area and the Tantus vibrator’s shaft and tip. Reapply during play rather than waiting for friction to build. Never use the massage oil as lubricant for the silicone vibrator.
4. Start with gentle external stimulation: Turn on the vibrator and hold it against the external anal area or perineum before insertion. Let your partner relax and breathe, and ask before increasing pressure or speed. If the vibration feels too intense, start on a lower setting or use it externally first.
5. Insert slowly and follow the curve: Guide the curved tip in slowly, angling it toward the P-spot as comfort allows. Pause at the bulbous head and let the muscles relax before continuing. Use short, gentle movements rather than pushing through resistance. Any sharp pain or numbness means stop, remove the toy, and try again another day.
6. Clean the vibrator after use: Wash the Tantus vibrator with warm water and mild soap, then dry it completely before storage. Keep it separate from oil-based products to avoid residue on the silicone. Check the toy’s care instructions for any battery or charging details before washing.

Product facts

• Lovehoney Apothecary Seduce Scent Massage Oil 3.4 fl oz: Scented massage oil with saffron, patchouli, jasmine, amber, cedar, and vanilla. The scent and slip make it a natural choice for the hands-on warm-up before any toy play, but keep it away from silicone toys.

  

• Tantus Silicone P-Spot Anal Vibrator 7.5 Inch: 7.5 inch contoured silicone shaft with a curved tip and bulbous head. The curve targets P-spot or G-spot stimulation, while the head adds fullness, so gradual insertion and water-based lube are essential.