How to Use a Remote Control Prostate Massager for Beginners

Quick answer

Start with a remote control prostate massager like the Lelo Hugo 2 by preparing your body, applying plenty of lubricant, and inserting the toy slowly. Use the remote to explore vibrations and movements that feel best for you.

Step-by-Step Guide to Using a Remote Control Prostate Massager

1. Step 1: Prepare Your Body and the Toy: Empty your bladder and take a warm shower to relax. Charge the massager fully (the Lelo Hugo 2 is rechargeable). Clean it with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. Skipping charging or cleaning can interrupt play—check battery and hygiene beforehand.
2. Step 2: Apply Lubricant Generously: Use a high-quality water-based lubricant. Apply a generous amount to the toy and your anus. Reapply as needed during use. Never use silicone lube with silicone toys—it can damage the surface.
3. Step 3: Insert Slowly and Listen to Your Body: Lie on your back with knees bent, or on your side. Gently press the tip against your anus and insert slowly, stopping when you feel resistance. Breathe deeply and relax your pelvic muscles. Pain or discomfort means you're going too fast—pause, breathe, and use more lube.
4. Step 4: Use the Remote to Explore Settings: Once inserted, turn on the remote and start with the lowest vibration setting. Experiment with different patterns and intensities. With the Lelo Hugo 2, try moving the remote in different directions to feel the SenseMotion response. Don't rush to high settings—low vibrations often build more satisfying sensations over time.
5. Step 5: Focus on the Prostate: Gently angle the toy toward your belly button. You'll feel a small, walnut-sized bump—that's the prostate. Apply steady or pulsing vibrations there. Use the remote to adjust without moving the toy. If you don't locate the prostate immediately, move the toy slightly in and out—it's usually about 2-3 inches inside.
6. Step 6: Clean and Store After Use: Turn off the toy and remove it gently. Wash with warm water and toy cleaner or mild soap. Dry completely and store in a clean, dry place away from direct sunlight. Always clean your massager after each use to prevent bacteria buildup and extend its life.

Product Spotlight

• Lelo Hugo 2 Remote Control Rechargeable Prostate Massager: The Lelo Hugo 2 features a SenseMotion remote that responds to the movement of your hand for complete personalization in play. This means you can adjust vibration patterns and intensity just by tilting or moving the remote, making hands-free control intuitive and fun.