How to Use a Massage Candle for Sensual Play (6 Steps) - Lovehoney US

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To use a massage candle for sensual play, light it for 15-20 minutes, blow it out, test the oil temperature on your wrist, then pour or scoop the warm oil onto your partner's skin and massage it in.

How to Use a Massage Candle in 6 Steps

1. 1. Prepare Your Space: Place the candle on a heat-safe surface in a draft-free area. Have a towel or sheet ready to protect your bedding or furniture from any drips. Common mistake: using the candle near flammable materials or on an unstable surface.
2. 2. Light the Candle: Light the wick and let the candle burn for 15-20 minutes. This allows a pool of melted oil to form on top. The scent will also start to fill the room, setting a relaxing mood. Common mistake: burning for too long (over 30 minutes) which can overheat the oil. Check the melted oil depth; you need at least 1/4 inch for a good application.
3. 3. Blow Out the Candle: Blow out the flame and let the candle sit for about 1 minute. This allows the oil to cool slightly from its hottest point. Common mistake: using the oil immediately after extinguishing, risking burns.
4. 4. Test the Temperature: Dip a clean finger or a small spoon into the melted oil and test it on the inside of your wrist. It should feel warm, not hot. If it's too hot, wait another minute. Common mistake: skipping the test and applying hot oil directly to sensitive skin. The oil should be comfortably warm, similar to a warm bath.
5. 5. Apply the Oil: Scoop or pour a small amount of warm oil into your palm. Rub your hands together to distribute it, then apply to your partner's skin using long, gliding strokes. Focus on areas like the back, shoulders, and legs. Common mistake: using too much oil at once, which can drip and make a mess. Start with a teaspoon-sized amount and add more as needed.
6. 6. Massage and Enjoy: Use the oil to give a full-body massage, adjusting pressure and pace based on your partner's response. The oil will absorb over time, so you can reapply as desired. After play, wash off any residue with soap and water. Common mistake: leaving oil on the skin overnight without washing, which may cause clogged pores. Store the candle in a cool, dry place for future use.

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• Lovehoney Oh! Vanilla Massage Candle 2.1oz: This vanilla massage candle is designed to take you from foreplay to sex, lighting to set the mood and melting into oil for massage. It combines ambiance and lubrication in one product, simplifying your sensual play routine.